| sometimes the thing you want most in life is the thing you can't have...it sucks when that happens...somedays your phone never stops ringing and you always have friends that complain that you don't talk to them much...then all of a sudden u feel lonely and you realize you have no one in your life that cares what you have to say....and the one person who did care doesn't anymore...it hurts to see things like this...but another thing that i have realized...when your heart gets broken so many times...then you start to feel as if you have no feelings at all...it is just so weird...how for more then a year all you do every night is cry your eyes out for the reason you don't even know y but now you know your hurt and you feel it in your heart but no tears come out no matter how much you want to let it all out... AS WE GROW UP, WE LEARN THAT EVEN THE ONE PERSON THAT WASN'T SUPPOSED TO EVER LET YOU DOWN PROBABLY WILL...YOU WILL HAVE YOUR HEART BROKEN PROBABLY MORE THEN ONCE AND IT'S HARDER EVER TIME...YOU'LL BREAK HEARTS TOO...SO REMEMBER HOW IT FELT WHEN YOURS WAS BROKEN...YOU'LL FIGHT WITH YOUR BEST FRIEND... YOU'LL BLAME A NEW LOVE FOR THINGS AN OLD ONE DID...YOU'LL CRY CUZ TIME IS GOING BY TOO FAST AND CUZ YOUR LONELY AND YOU WILL EVENTUALLY LOSE SOMEONE YOU LOVE...SO TAKE TOO MANY PICTURES,LAUGH TOO MUCH,AND LOVE LIKE YOU'VE NEVER BEEN HURT BECAUSE EVERY 60 SECONDS YOU SPEND UPSET IS A MINUTE OF HAPPINESS YOU WILL NEVER GET BACK....  |
Laugh when you can,
apologize when you should,
and let go of what you can't change.
Kiss slowly,
play hard,
forgive quickly,
take chances,
give everything
and have no regrets.
Life's too short to be anything…but happy.
Be good to each other
Love you guys
Tuesday 2 March 2010
LOVE/SomeOne
Monday 1 March 2010
Creating and maintaining a healthy relationship
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"What are the secrets to creating and maintaining a healthy relationship? The quality of information you use to make your choices about love and relationships, determines the quality of relationship you will find yourself in. Unfortunately, we live in an era with tons of misguided and twisted ideas about love and relationships. To protect yourself from unwanted heartaches and emotional devastation, you need some guidelines and tips to help you avoid the most common relationship pitfalls. You can control the quality of your relationship by knowing what to look for in a person, before you decide to make them part of your life."
This goes back to my post about the Hidden Evils of Dating, where I talked how "it's a good idea to really take the time to get to know someone before you enter into a relationship with them and give them your heart." Someone responded asking, "how well can you ever really know someone? And perhaps more importantly, how well can anyone ever really know me?"
That's actually a very good question. I responded saying "someone can really only get to know you as much as you let them. As far as getting to know someone else, if they aren't letting you in or letting you know them, then you shouldn't be with them. And for me, when I'm getting to know someone, I get to know their friends and family too. Cause most likely they will be like the ones they spend most of their time with. It's easy to know someone, you just have to pay attention." You have to pay close attention.
So, what are your secrets to creating and maintaining a healthy relationship ??
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